GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE: WHAT IT IS AND WHY IT IS REQUESTED
A few years ago, a new TV series called The Girlfriend Experience was launched, focusing on the double life of a law student leading a second life as a high-end escort.
But to what extent does this show reflect the real-life “girl experience” that Escorte Suceava sometimes have to offer?
Girlfriend experience which translates to ‘girlfriend experience’ (GFE) is when a client seeks a longer encounter with an escort, often with boyfriend/girlfriend role-playing. Sometimes the client expects the escort to talk and act as if she has an affair, romance, relationship and many times a Girlfriend experience does not involve sexual activity.
But what does a customer expect from a Girlfriend experience?
Well, a bit ‘everything you expect from a relationship with your girlfriend. Hugging, kissing and making effusions, just to clarify. They go out with them as in a normal relationship, even going so far as to take a hotel room to enjoy time with them, even without consuming sex. All they really want is attention, like it’s their own girlfriend. Clients requesting GFE vary, as do their motivations.
Some are just too busy (usually with their careers) to maintain a relationship. They want all the perks of having a girlfriend but without all the work. Other escort clients may be in relationships but are not having sex within those relationships. Others have wife problems, perhaps not having sex and missing out on touching and kissing. Some clients may be physically disabled, never having an authentic “girlfriend” experience. Others are just lonely, don’t have any women in their life, don’t know any women in their life. They just want someone to go with them and let them tickle them and spending time laughing with them makes them feel good. That’s all I want, really. The point of view of the escort, on the other hand, is a little different. From a sex worker’s perspective, the girlfriend experience is favorable because the worker is often able to solicit more money from the client (usually longer sessions) while doing less work (such as when there is no sex).
On the flip side, there’s often more emotional work involved. An escort is fine with it because usually there is no sex. But he has to be okay with kissing and cuddling, which he doesn’t mind, but some girls just can’t do that. The hardest part is saying the right things and making him feel special. In all of this there could also be a sentimental involvement towards a client, particularly those applying for the GFE, but by and large the train of thought is that it’s just business.
The boyfriend experience
We must remember that the “girlfriend experience” frames sex work as a heterosexual construct with the male as the buyer and the woman as the provider. But there are also male and transgender sex workers. Again the situation doesn’t change: many dates don’t even want to do anything physical, they just want to hang out. They just want attention. These particular escorts have many repeat clients who apply for a BFE but are acutely aware of the reality of the arrangement. As much as they can say, ‘I love you’, it’s all bullshit. Because when the end of the night comes, they’ll take the money and be out the door, and that’s it. Bottom line, it’s just business.
So this is the Girlfriend Experience. It’s you, have you ever tried it? Tell us about your experiences.